• This is the home of The Abyssian Union. A religious society dedicated to the reclaiming of self and the positive reformation of the world thru sex.

    Reclaim your power.

  • So you want to join a sex cult?

    Download our guide for newcomers "So you want to join a sex cult? An Introduction to the Abyssian Union" Be warned. Sex magic is powerful, and addicting :)

  • The 7 Invitations

    What we believe, and what we invite you to believe too.

    The Abyss is the source of everything. Everything comes from the Abyss and to the Abyss everything shall return.

    Sex is power. Societies and Organizations that aim to control or limit your sexuality are designed to make you docile and limit your power. Take that power back.

    A selfish life is a life constrained. Reclaim your power and celebrate the path of others to reclaim theirs.

    Giving yourself to another is the ultimate freedom. Submitting to or taking responsibility for another is the highest expression of love..

    Be bigger than yourself. And the abyss will unlock it's mysteries for you.

    Life is fluid. The only thing you will ever be able to count on is that everything will change.

    Love is terrifying. Vulnerability and empathy are difficult. But they are the only path to real joy.

  • Frequently Asked Questions

    Random tidbits about what The Abyssian Union is all about.

    Are you a sex cult?


    Do you care to elaborate?

    Not really. But if you insist...



    Definition of cult (webster)


    1: a religion regarded as unorthodox or spurious (see SPURIOUS sense 2)also : its body of adherents


    That's us. Unorthodox. Orthodoxy has gotten us to where we are as a society. It has sought to make you docile and complacent. It has worked to separate you from your birth right of sacred sexual power. We are the opposite.


    We are unorthodox.



    How can I join?

    Great question. If you look up above, there’s a “Join Now” button. That will get you on our mailing list. Simple enough.

    Does that mean I can call myself Abyssian?

    Well, that’s sort of a personal choice. If you read our materials, like what they say and want to live your life by our invitations “BOOM” you’re Abyssian. That’s your decision. But, I’m sure we all know several really terrible people who call themselves “Christian”. That doesn’t really mean they practice that faith. It’s more like a checkbox. Living your life for the Abyss is a journey, one that we are happy to help you on. So if you are finding value in what we teach, reach out! We will be happy to help you on a more formal path to reclaiming the power of your sexuality.


    Do I need to pay money to join the Union?

    Unequivocally, No. The idea that you have to pay to hold certain beliefs and values is really offensive. We present the vast majority of our information, free of charge. And there is more than enough material, for free, to make an informed choice on if the Abyss is for you. Now, as a practicing Abyssian there are certain things that may come with a fee. Events, classes, festivals, books, but I think you are probably used to paying for those things in the Muggle world already. But those things are never a requirement. The Abyss is available for all who seek it. Regardless of station or economic situation. But if you follow the path to The Abyss, and you find the value in your life that we have, donations for the continued support of our mission are always appreciated.


    Why did you start this?

    No one currently involved with the Union “started” this. The Abyss has always been here, and will always continue to be here. Whether we choose to acknowledge it or not. The Invitations we follow can be found practiced throughout history in all areas of the world. The Abyssian Union is simply a combining of these disparate lessons into a unified resource for all who seek it.



    Do you force members to have sex?

    Fuck no. At the root of everything you will find in Abyssian culture is a very important word, consent. We don’t believe in force. Come willingly to the Abyss or not at all. If you will notice, our core tenets are called “Invitations” not “Commandments”. We invite you to follow our Invitations. And we know that accepting that invitation can lead to a wondrous and fulfilling life. But people who follow our ways do so of their own free will and desire. It’s the only way this works. All of that being said, as stated in our second invitation “We invite you to celebrate your sexuality.” The Abyssian Union is an organization dedicated to providing a safe environment for the exploration of ALL sexualities. Sex is power. We will help you to reclaim yours.



    Does The Union Baptize members?

    Yes! But it’s not the kind of baptism you are probably familiar with. The Abyssian Union does not baptize children. Remember what we said about consent? Yeah, it’s really important to us. So we do not take any formal members who have not reached the age of consent of at least 18 years.




    So if I’m under 18 the Union is not for me?

    The Union is for everyone. We welcome anyone to read our literature and live by our principles. But we do not allow anyone under the age of 18 to participate in any of our rituals or events. Your mind is still growing. Hopefully that never stops. But we believe it’s important to be of an age to make a rational decision about joining an organization like The Union. We will still be here on your 18th birthday. With cake.




    What is the Abyss?

    The Abyss is everything. You, me, your pet dog, pikachu, that weird iguana at your neighbors, your neighbor. The Abyss is the fathomless pool of existence where all realities come from. Other organization may call it the Universe, we find that limiting as we believe in a multiverse. But anything that is, has been, or can be is all sourced from The Abyss. And when we pass from this realm, we will return to The Abyss.





    So do you believe in an afterlife?

    We believe in a life ever changing and ever lasting. We believe that when “you” pass on from your current reality you will return to the abyss and your essence is redistributed to an infinite number of new realities. Death isn’t a thing. Everything is life. Life continues.

    Do you believe in any other weird shit?

    100% We believe in change, in all things. So we have no dogma. We believe in Science and its ability to give us meaning in making sense of our current reality. We believe in art as a medium to express the infinite of The Abyss and make sense of the human journey in a way that words can never do. And we believe in you. Whoever you are, we believe that you have the power and the ability to improve your life and the life of others.

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  • The Blog

    Thoughts, musings, and ruminations.

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